Sorry for your loss and disappointment. Think I told you before my wife was very prone to spontaneous abortions. Her body just didn't accept that they belonged there. But then she did manage to carry my step son to term forty years ago.
When we got together neither of us had any thought of more kids but right when she was forty herself we got inspired to go for it. The first and only time I've ever shot any off looking to make something of it. Strange feeling after a life devoted to avoiding the same. Then her appendix burst and it all became moot.
All I can tell you is it seems that which ever way your life goes can end up acquiring a 'just right' feel. We didn't need to make a kid together to cement a good relationship and I'll bet you don't either. I find the four footers more than enough responsibility. They never become rebellious teenagers (well ..) and never move out and fail to call. Just right.
When we got together neither of us had any thought of more kids but right when she was forty herself we got inspired to go for it. The first and only time I've ever shot any off looking to make something of it. Strange feeling after a life devoted to avoiding the same. Then her appendix burst and it all became moot.
All I can tell you is it seems that which ever way your life goes can end up acquiring a 'just right' feel. We didn't need to make a kid together to cement a good relationship and I'll bet you don't either. I find the four footers more than enough responsibility. They never become rebellious teenagers (well ..) and never move out and fail to call. Just right.
