That question comes up a lot here. If you do a search you can find some. But maybe someone will want to discuss it with you again.
I'll just say the real issue is with terminology. A near death experience isn't about what happens when you're dead, only nearly so. Nearly dead is still alive. In dreams lots of fantastic things happen. Under the extreme conditions of near death, the brain might well give rise to surprising experiences. They just don't tell you about anything 'beyond the grave', just about what your brain under duress is capable of.
But of course you probably won't want to drop it just like that. Good luck.
I'll just say the real issue is with terminology. A near death experience isn't about what happens when you're dead, only nearly so. Nearly dead is still alive. In dreams lots of fantastic things happen. Under the extreme conditions of near death, the brain might well give rise to surprising experiences. They just don't tell you about anything 'beyond the grave', just about what your brain under duress is capable of.
But of course you probably won't want to drop it just like that. Good luck.