I've known a lot of people in a similar sense to what you have described. A few years back, a new hire at work, he and I shared some similar interests. So, we struck up one those brief work style friendships. One day he saw me talking to a homosexual co-worker that I'm friends with. (I don't care about status, if your a homosexual, transgender, or whatever. If we share some common ground I'll have a conversation with you about the subject.) He asked me one day, "Why are you talking to a homosexual?, don't you know their life styles are wrong!" I was kinda of thrown back at what he said. After I told, that I did not care about a persons race or sexual identity. He got mad and never talked to me again in a personal fashion.
Your in tough place, if you support her niece if it will put in a difficult position with your stepson. But from what you said, to me he's not worth getting along with. Support her niece and maybe he will calm down a bit
Your in tough place, if you support her niece if it will put in a difficult position with your stepson. But from what you said, to me he's not worth getting along with. Support her niece and maybe he will calm down a bit