So about Russia and homosexuals

[Brian37]

Not getting enough, eh?

Nah its not about that. I just tend to freak more out if it goes too far when i am in a chatroom of horny people. So i can only handle for so long til i just quit it. I have had sex with prostitutes and one ex girl whom i never got along with.

I really don't know where you are going with this. But watching porn between consenting adults online is one thing. Chatting in a group specifically for sex talk with complete strangers is not a good idea. Identity thieves and child molesters. 

Sounds to me you have a problem with self control having nothing to do with the sexuality of others. 

If you are having self control issues, that would be an issue with your own psychology. Healthy relationships do not involve demanding others avoid things you don't like.

If you are having sex with unregulated sex workers that is simply dangerous to your own health and to them. But if you are going to say a legal regulated brothel say like in Amsterdam nobody should have a problem with that.

You had sex with a girl you never got along with? Yea and, I've had bad relationships too. I've even been divorced. 

I'd say your issue isn't the sex itself, I think you are simply insecure. 

Healthy relationships are about good communication skills. Not simply talking at someone or making demands of them, but listening and compromise and knowing how to have a civil disagreement. No relationship that lasts is hinged on looks or sex, but communication.

Before you go condemning others, you should work on you and focus on you. Unless you can be happy with yourself, no relationship will help you. 

I am being dead serious now, help yourself, stop worrying about what others are doing. If you don't like what others are doing then don't partake in it. But even without sex involved, you are going to be miserable in many aspects of your life if you are not happy with yourself first and if all you do is protect your morals on others.

Your own brain is what matters, in any relationship communication matters, even with just friends or family. You have to know what good communication looks like and understand that. Even with co workers.

I hope you can learn from this post, for you, not me.