RE: Hello, and what should I do?
October 6, 2017 at 1:58 pm
(This post was last modified: October 6, 2017 at 2:09 pm by Succubus.)
Hello Ray. That's an awful lot to digest, so for now I'll focus on one issue.
Have you considered this may be the fundamental cause of your predicament? In effect, you are living a lie and have been since you became married, or did you realise you were gay after you became married? Same thing, only the sequence of event differ. You are lieing to yourself and you are lieing to your wife, I shouldn’t have to point out how destructive this is. I suggest you concentrate on resolving this first, then work on your many other confusions.
Welcome to the forums.
Quote:...especially considering my sexual orientation and marriage which no matter how many times I've tried to reconcile the both, it just always ends up a mess.
Have you considered this may be the fundamental cause of your predicament? In effect, you are living a lie and have been since you became married, or did you realise you were gay after you became married? Same thing, only the sequence of event differ. You are lieing to yourself and you are lieing to your wife, I shouldn’t have to point out how destructive this is. I suggest you concentrate on resolving this first, then work on your many other confusions.
Welcome to the forums.
It's amazing 'science' always seems to 'find' whatever it is funded for, and never the oppsite. Drich.
