(October 18, 2017 at 9:20 pm)Hammy Wrote:(October 18, 2017 at 9:19 pm)Tres Leches Wrote: Ok, Hammy, if it's important to you then I won't minimize it. A better question would be - "why does it matter?" For reals - I'm curious and I like to ask questions.
-Teresa
I don't even know if it does "matter" I just want to know the answer. The only thing I believe ultimately matters is the fostering of well-being and the avoidance of long-term suffering.
How's my answer sweetie?
(By the way if you find "sweetie" condescending feel free to tell me to fuck off. I was just worried I'd sound defensive if I didn't add something like that! And I want you to know I like you! Plus I freaking suck balls at social skills).
lol I can think of way worse things to be called than "sweetie".

It's hard to tell over the web if you're really introverted but my sense is that you might be. Do you think you are?
I'm a big introvert but there's nothing wrong with being that way. Just find other introverts to hang with.
-Teresa
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