(December 16, 2017 at 4:53 am)vulcanlogician Wrote: I see what you mean. I guess it could go both ways, and it depends on what benefit you might reap from adopting another's personality. For instance, I don't know about "ignoring" women but "not paying so damned much attention to them" might help certain overzealous guys.
That being said, there are many different ways to romance a woman, and "seduction" certainly isn't everyone's forte'. Some guys are exiting and fun-loving. Other guys are humorous. The fact that human offspring continue to be produced suggests that a many of them get laid, not just the ones who ignore women. (Though this is reminding me of the histrionic personality disorder thread from a few days back.) Certainly one should play to his strengths.
You said something about "methods" in the OP. What kind of approach would you prefer to see from a pop psychologist?
My wife liked my lack of style and finesse thinking it was a sign that I had probably not been out with a lot of women, little knowing the lack of quality control some women apply.
You can fix ignorance, you can't fix stupid.
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