RE: Porn, porn and more porn!
December 20, 2017 at 9:48 am
(This post was last modified: December 20, 2017 at 9:52 am by Neo-Scholastic.)
(December 20, 2017 at 8:03 am)Industrial Lad Wrote: Everyone masturbates and most Christians have had premarital sex. They just say they don't do these things.
It's really dumb. The more you abstain the hornier you get and the more you think about sex. The more you think about sex the more guilty you feel about having lustful thoughts.
I actually think whoever made this stuff up just wanted it to be as miserable as possible to not be married so the maximum number of people would be reproducing.
No logical person, however would think it's possible to only have sexual thoughts about one person your entire life.
It is simply not true that abstinence results in a vicious circle of increasing lust. It is just like fasting there is period of intense hunger but in short order that goes away and is replaced by an abiding sense of calm.
Nevertheless I know that Western culture treats sexual desire as some uncontrollable compulsion. That belief is very insidious and has destroyed more social goods than expanded freedom. When those rivers are dammed we gain access to more power and prevent dangerous flooding.
(December 20, 2017 at 4:45 am)Aroura Wrote: deleted.
My sex life is happy an healthy enough, I don't need to lecture others on how unhealthy thiers is. They'll find out in due time.
True enough. At the same time unhealthy messages about casual sex, serial monogamy, and their ubiquity can have widespread social consequences.
