(June 3, 2018 at 1:23 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: I think the worst part was saying her husband deserved better than her... worse than the cunt thing. That would hit a spot with me for sure, but maybe that's because I actually already feel like he deserves better than me lol.
Yeah, it's an anxiety I have, but that's between us. What Hammy says can't penetrate this marriage or how I or Tibs feels about it. That's not to say he should have gone so personal, but rather that I know he can't judge how I am with my husband based on how I am with him. It's absurd to think that my being "mean" to him means I'm anything like that with Tibs. Then again, I talk shit with Tibs all the time, and he seems fine with it. By all accounts, Tibs is perfectly happy with me. Who knows why? I've learned not to ask.
I'm sure your husband deserves you and you deserve him. Your insecurity is based entirely in something you can't control. You will overcome it eventually.
