(July 16, 2018 at 3:30 am)MysticKnight Wrote: 7/16/218
The summer course I am taking is stressful. Truth be told, I didn't need to take this course, unless I complete my honor's which at this point I plan to finish just my bachelors (and switch it to a bachelors when I have all courses finished). I took it because I wanted to spend time with a particular person and also make sure she does well in the course. She is Muslim but I don't think she would marry me at this point. Still, there is nothing wrong with hope, and seeing what comes about. So far despite how hard the course is, I am enjoying mainly due to her company.
I speak from experience, DO NOT throw yourself at women. You take it slow, don't be aggressive, make it about finding out what you have in common. It does you no good to get into any relationship if it is solely about hormones, don't confuse hormones for love. It will always be up to her, not you. If she wants more than to be friends, great. But, if she doesn't then that is her right.
Trust me, I have been through lots of dates, been rejected plenty of times. I've been dumped even after dating. I've been married and divorced. Do not chase utopias. Sometimes things work out, sometimes they do not.