RE: The Newly Departed thread: announcements (departures)
November 13, 2018 at 11:58 pm
(This post was last modified: November 13, 2018 at 11:59 pm by brewer.)
Fine, I'm malicious, inhuman, callous and any other label you think applies. I'll take all the heat any of you want to give me.
Living in loss, remorse, regret and self pity is no way to live. It destroys the person and the people around them (if any remain). The group here seems to think that a miscarriage lies in some special category of loss that no woman can ever get over. Now, I'm not a woman so I can't speak first hand, but I have known a few that have had the experience. The ones that work their way thru the grief process recover, and don't continue to torture themselves, at least that's what I hear from them. Maybe they're lying, I can't really know for certain.
Was I too harsh, seems that way by the reactions. Do I completely regret my actions, no.
You might as well get it all out now.
Edit: My position has nothing to do with religion.
Living in loss, remorse, regret and self pity is no way to live. It destroys the person and the people around them (if any remain). The group here seems to think that a miscarriage lies in some special category of loss that no woman can ever get over. Now, I'm not a woman so I can't speak first hand, but I have known a few that have had the experience. The ones that work their way thru the grief process recover, and don't continue to torture themselves, at least that's what I hear from them. Maybe they're lying, I can't really know for certain.
Was I too harsh, seems that way by the reactions. Do I completely regret my actions, no.
You might as well get it all out now.
Edit: My position has nothing to do with religion.
Being told you're delusional does not necessarily mean you're mental.
