Evidence for a god. Do you have any ?

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But how is it possible that we are self aware humans with brains and love for each other etc, if there is nothing else like us anywhere in billions of galaxies and maybe multiple universes?

How do you know there is no life elsewhere, perhaps some that have exceeded our level of intelligence and love ? Is it even logical to assume we are alone in the universe ?
We simply have no way of knowing, if you don't know simply say you don't know. 

Why would we be unique and more importantly how would we be unique in those ways?

What are you comparing us with to say we are unique, and what makes you believe those ways are the objectively (if such a thing exists) noble ?

Why would we be able to even have any experiences, if there were not some enabler of those experiences?

We don't know, but what reason do you have to throw a god in the mix ? We could possible be the least intelligent prime species in the universe, we simply do not know.

Again you are simply asserting as truth things you cannot possibly know.