A lot of times parents don't realize how hard they are being on their children. They don't listen because they usually know best. He could be right or wrong, but neither one matters. It matters that he can't deliver his expectations or advise properly. Speaking as a dad, I'd never want my daughter to shut me out the way you have from your posts. There is some obvious serious communication issues which I hope you can get help with. You can't help him be a better parent if he's oblivious that how he talks to you hurts you, just like your shitting him out doesn't make you a better child. obviously there's a lot of things to unpack in your life, immediately find some friends and people your age to talk to about it. Talking about things does help, and if you can't talk to the people that are part of the problem, talk to some people who will at least listen.
"There ought to be a term that would designate those who actually follow the teachings of Jesus, since the word 'Christian' has been largely divorced from those teachings, and so polluted by fundamentalists that it has come to connote their polar opposite: intolerance, vindictive hatred, and bigotry." -- Philip Stater, Huffington Post
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