I agree which is why usually I opt for resolving the emotional hurt prior to seeking justice. It can not always be done. Sometimes they die or there’s a statute of limitations, etc. . It is most assuredly different from revenge.i just hope it helps the OP
"There ought to be a term that would designate those who actually follow the teachings of Jesus, since the word 'Christian' has been largely divorced from those teachings, and so polluted by fundamentalists that it has come to connote their polar opposite: intolerance, vindictive hatred, and bigotry." -- Philip Stater, Huffington Post
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