(April 29, 2019 at 10:50 am)madog Wrote:(April 29, 2019 at 10:05 am)pocaracas Wrote: Can I use the short skirt example again?
"someone that purposefully uses [short skirts] in a manner that makes [rape] more likely shares in the resposibility "
Victim blaming.
Apples and oranges .... unless you think wearing a miniskirt is wrong?
It's about as wrong as saying a word, I guess... perhaps wronger, given that words are wind and have a very ephemeral permanence, while the sight of the lady's legs has more staying power.
(April 29, 2019 at 10:50 am)madog Wrote: Do you accept calling a black guy the N word makes him the victim?
What?! Why??
Do you think that me calling you any offensive word, like asshole, idiot, stupid, etc... makes you a victim? A victim of what?
(April 29, 2019 at 10:50 am)madog Wrote: If so your stance is .... if a black guy beats up a white guy and the white guy responds by calling the attacker an N word, saying beating up the white guy is wrong is 'victim blaming'
Think about it ....
Big fucking difference when both parties are both attackers and victims ....
Huh?!
Are you sure you wrote what you wanted to say?
The guy who initiates violence is the one to blame. The one on the other end of that violence is the victim.