Just because all actions rest within the framework of affecting us in someway does not negate that some actions maximize value for self and some can lessen self. I would not agree that no action can be selfless as is commonly defined. I would agree that all actions affect self in some way, but selflessness is a direction of focus on what is benefited more.
"There ought to be a term that would designate those who actually follow the teachings of Jesus, since the word 'Christian' has been largely divorced from those teachings, and so polluted by fundamentalists that it has come to connote their polar opposite: intolerance, vindictive hatred, and bigotry." -- Philip Stater, Huffington Post
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