A postscript to "what happened to me"

[Amarok]

My experience has been that the condescending people are the same ones who won't give reasons. 

In my experience people who demand reason generally don't care about the actual reasons and just use that word over and over to sound virtuous 

They act as though their opinions are so obvious that anyone who doesn't already agree is just a fool. Offering one's reasoning is a sign of respect.

They act as thou they want reasons then ignore them when their given and pretend none were given as not to burst their bubble of pretend intellectual superiority . Offering ones reasons to a person who deserves your respect is a sign of respect otherwise your casting pearls to swine .