(September 25, 2019 at 10:26 am)Shell B Wrote: I love to help, but I have many criteria, so to speak. I flat-out won’t lend money to many family members. Others, I would help without hesitation. Others still, I would rather purchase necessities for than give cash.
Is this due to some personal family dynamic, or do you have another reason for the rule regarding not lending money to family?
In my case, I didn't lend the money because I never expected to see it back. So I just said take it.
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