(September 25, 2019 at 10:47 am)wyzas Wrote: While we're on the subject of finances and family, I have a rule that I don't do business with family or friends. Not the car salesman, accountant or the FFL dealer.
If/when things go bad it tends to ruin relationships.
In Portugal we have a proverb that goes something like this: want to lose a friend? Lend it money.
@EgoDeath : I gave 6K to my dad to help him pay a debt he had to the IRS some 15 years ago. Meh, after stopping drugs I went work-home routine to avoid relapses and had some cash in the bank.
I did the right thing. He cleaned up his act and that is enough pay for me.