Spanking?

[Athene]

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Please, don't attempt to explain where I'm coming from in regards to my own mind, because you're totally off in regards to me. I can't speak for Boru, of course.

I've made it clear multiple times that I don't advocate spanking. 
My position is not a result of "internalized oppression" and "reliving Black racial trauma". 

It's one of recognizing that child-rearing is much more complex than many people realize, and understanding that rushing to label any and every parent who's ever spanked a child as a child abuser could stand to be at direct odds with what's actually in child's best interest if they have good parents who don't normally resort to spanking and clearly value disciplining children using non-corporal means.

Maybe you should go find another argument to mediate, Rev, because I'm not interested in your offer. I know you meant well, but it was wildly presumptuous and rather insulting for you suggest that I need YOU to assist me in my journey in learning to understand myself and my own Blackness, and that my every thought and opinion in this thread has it's roots slavery just because you read some goddamn article. 

I know exactly why I think what I think. Trust and believe, I'm self-aware as fuck.

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But mutual spanking would add a decoration to the sex process; some playful "teasing" of the partner's body is good; or so I think.

I'm not a big fan of spanking; I also have no fetish regarding the thing..but it's an excitement in sex; just like when partners play "domination/Femdom" with their wives or husbands.

A nude wife,spanking me and let me spank her..well that's good !

Lol...I'm only opposed to spanking kids. 

Apparently, there are a few folks here who don't feel that's "good enough" and are adamant that I must additionally attach some sort of moral objectivism or absolutism to my stance in order to "be on the right side of AF history"....as if I give a fuck.

I refuse to do so because I'm of the belief that there indeed exists a moral gray area in regards to most any issue and I'm inclined to think that context is a important thing to consider in making individual determinations of "right" and "wrong".

So if my agreement that spanking children is wrong as a general principal isn't enough for these cats, I don't what to tell them other than to "Go find the nearest cactus", I guess.


Now, as far as the grown and sexy are concerned...  
I have no issue with adults spanking each other. It's none of my business.

Personally, I can take it or leave it. It makes for great fun sometimes, but I wouldn't cry if could never do it again.