I think it's decency that lets us stand up for abusers. Just because they abused you doesn't mean that you have to abandon your own instinct to care for other humans. It's very complex, and people who don't care for their abusers aren't bad people, but it's not a bad thing to step up to the plate.
I don't blame you for refusing to do it a second time around. You have siblings. Let them take care of it.
I don't blame you for refusing to do it a second time around. You have siblings. Let them take care of it.