RE: I am currently recovering from transgender surgeries. Ask me anything.
July 28, 2020 at 9:17 pm
(July 28, 2020 at 9:12 pm)ignoramus Wrote: T, I'm interested to know if what you did was because it makes you happy for "you" or it makes you happy because society becomes less abrasive and accepting.
I'm sure they're both inexorably linked, how much weight would you give each...
That second part is a very good insight.
Truth is, if I could, I would just be a regular old non-transgender woman. So, a lot of the facial work and boobs, I want to look more like a regular old woman. If I already looked like a cis woman or if society (myself included) accepted my appearance as that of a regular old woman, how would I feel? Hard to tell.
As for the genital surgery, that one is all me. I've had more than a few times, I'd be with a guy and I might be making out with him or just touching him and I want sex but...... I can't have sex the way I want to. That was always so frustrating. So, now, once I've recovered down there, I won't have that problem anymore.
I live on facebook. Come see me there. http://www.facebook.com/tara.rizzatto
"If you cling to something as the absolute truth and you are caught in it, when the truth comes in person to knock on your door you will refuse to let it in." ~ Siddhartha Gautama
"If you cling to something as the absolute truth and you are caught in it, when the truth comes in person to knock on your door you will refuse to let it in." ~ Siddhartha Gautama
