If that works for them then that's fine. Good for them. I just don't like the impression that because they abstained that makes them better than everyone else.
Talking about "the best way" and the sacredness of their marriage bed(as if sex between them is so holy, it can't be had anywhere else; for virgins, they sure think highly of their own prowess) these are loaded in a pretentious, arrogant way. Talking about the lack of lust on their wedding night "We actually took that time to really get to know each other," as if being physically intimate together wouldn't be a part of that. As if, anyone who does let sex come between them on their wedding night is lesser, like, "WE had the willpower and put the work in to make our relationship REALLY matter." And anyone who doesn't wait for-fricking-ever to finally have it don't really know each other.
But whatever. Good for them.
Talking about "the best way" and the sacredness of their marriage bed(as if sex between them is so holy, it can't be had anywhere else; for virgins, they sure think highly of their own prowess) these are loaded in a pretentious, arrogant way. Talking about the lack of lust on their wedding night "We actually took that time to really get to know each other," as if being physically intimate together wouldn't be a part of that. As if, anyone who does let sex come between them on their wedding night is lesser, like, "WE had the willpower and put the work in to make our relationship REALLY matter." And anyone who doesn't wait for-fricking-ever to finally have it don't really know each other.
But whatever. Good for them.
