It's time

[The Architect Of Fate]

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How can one not benefit from the belief of being taken care of by a very powerful being ?

I can't speak for everyone of course but in my case, I don't seek that sort of dependence any more. I did while I was a Christian, but now my perspective is very different, based around a kind of Stoic/Buddhist philosophy of not trying to control my environment so much as my own mind. So in other words, no longer constantly praying to a god or any other external thing to change my circumstances... to do that would just seem to create an endless state of 'learned helplessness'... but instead learning to accept whatever comes my way.

Indeed people don't need to be taken care of they need to learn to take care of themselves or to change their perception of hardship. To lean on a cosmic nanny is unhealthy.