If life is temporary, why is finding a date so HARD?

[Ahriman]

God doesn't like humans, so He made some humans more capable of manifesting good things than others, so that the people who couldn't manifest good things (or found it extremely difficult) would suffer more as a result.

I mean women should be intuitively smart enough to understand that though, since they're more supreme beings in my opinion. That there are actually DECENT men that are a little off from your standard 5'10 nice face strong built body. Since life is temporary why would it even matter to PICK and CHOOSE?? It does NOT matter, because at the end of the day they will be bones and dirt and there is nothing they can do to stop that when they grow older and wither away, and then one day the whole human race from one event that is absolutely going to happen and we cannot stop it. I think the human race was created in erorr. I don't believe in a god, or a god is consciously doing this, I think the human creation was an un-conscious accidental creation, like all life.

Like does my point make sense though, when I say temporary I mean it's.. life.. is literally temporary. So why does it matter??? Who cares if everything doesn't always work out, a kind gentle loving soul like myself or someone else stuck would get that chance to have and experience the love they want and DESERVE. A lot of these guys with muscles are shallow af. and they alllll probably support spraying of chemicals on food and GMO food. gross, yuck.

You had me until the bold part. Makes no sense. But everything else in your post makes sense. Like I said, sex/dating should be a much more casual and open-ended thing than it is. And I am actually a 5'10 male with a nice face and strong built body.