Who counts as queer?

[FrustratedFool]

In the context it seems highly unlikely to be an honest observation.  Or, at best, it's a sincere subjective assessment weaponised.  Either is uncivil.

It seems odd to me that I come across as unnecessarily sensitive.  If anything, I am more often accused elsewhere of my posts coming across as cold, detached, arrogant, too formal, etc.

I admit to having a contrarian streak, but not combative.

Okay, let's see if you can thread this other needle.

I'm not sure what you mean by that, but it seems you have decided to engage with me in a quarrelsome and pedantic manner.  That too is uncivil.