Are people here too rude?

[zwanzig]

I really don't need to explain that to you.  You can read and figure it out on your own.

Here's what I don't understand...why are there people who come here and decide that they don't like the people, the vibe, the manners of the other members but continue to stay?

If I go somewhere and don't like it, I leave.  

But you do you, as I said, and beat that dead horse.