It is about patriotism. You are protecting your culture, beliefs and country. You have made mention of it several times.
I don't think marriage equality is destructive. However, I agree that it might be in your country. In my country, it would give people equal rights and piss off people who it would not affect in the slightest. People like them have been pissed off before. It all worked out in the end.
I don't think marriage equality is destructive. However, I agree that it might be in your country. In my country, it would give people equal rights and piss off people who it would not affect in the slightest. People like them have been pissed off before. It all worked out in the end.