How to not be desperate for a gf?

[jackman]

I speak of personal experience.
Whenever I ask girls, they give the most cliche answers. "Just be yourself" and "Be confident". They don't really tell you what they really, really want. They can't tell you to be rich, to be successful, to be handsome, to be cultured, to be active, to be educated, or whatever that is that they want. If they did, they're probably break your heart, as you probably lack one or more qualities that they really want to see in a man. I do not hate women. How could I...

i was joking with you about the misogynist part. your post was funny and there was some truth in it. a lot of women i've bumped into would certainly lie about what they want. men and women both give each other their "demo", it's just like their intro package - major changes come after the demo plays out. many (not all) that i've known or chatted with, would certainly trade up at a second's notice - if pro athelete, singer, celeb or just someone with a ton of money comes thru. it's a shame to trade quality for quantity, but it happens often.