How to not be desperate for a gf?

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That is something one should not do if you ask me. Of course if your motivation is to further your relationship beyond friendship.

If you like or love that girl, but if she wants to stay friends, end your friendship, after admitting your feelings.
She will respect your choice, she has to.

Terrible advice. Absolutely awful. Starting off as good friends is actually a good way to learn and understand each other. It gives you both space and time as well as respect for each other. Allows time for feelings to develop. If things don't progress towards feelings of attraction then simply leave it and remain good friends. If you both do develop attraction for each other, take the next step and start arranging dates for you both.

I'm pretty sure women will prefer a man who's patient, caring and understanding rather than some feller who just wants to hit with them before anything else.

I generally don't like to spend too much time with girls I want as a giirlfriend.

In my mind, I look at this as I would look at a plant. Sorry if my metaphor is a bit too harsh sounding for people, but I'm sure that girls use similar metaphors for us males.

You would not want to water a plant too much. If you do that, it will die.
Similarly, if you maintain a relationship that is too friendly with someone, that someone will eventually kill any feelings that could go beyond friendship with you.
Of course, if she does have such feelings. If not, it will just make matters worse, and could even lead to the girl denouncing you either private or in public.
I personally, am an impatient man when it comes to relationships. If I call a girl out to meet with me, and she gives me an answer that doesn't satisfy me, I generally write her off. She certainly does not show the same enthusiasm in meeting eachother as I do.
Of course, I would not do the same for a girl I only view as a friend.
If she wants to go out with someone else, it's her business.

Even though I am impatient, I am not a fool. For a girl, with whom I want to have a relationship, I carefully administer water. Either when the time comes(I generally prefer 3-4 days in between meetings) or whenever she requests water(if she personally calls, you either oblige, or you play the plant. The latter one is a bit risky though).

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Riiiight.

, or simply inheritance

Maybe you should have read the rest.