How to not be desperate for a gf?

[Ace Otana]

Nothing. But with girls whom I would like to go out with, or have a certain emotional attachment, I rather have no friendly relations.
If I want a girl as a regular friend, I generally write them on my list as such.

We'll, we have our methods. I prefer to take things slowly if I am to progress with her emotionally, even if it means starting out as good friends. It works very well. You have to think about her feelings and try not to put her in a difficult situation. I know what it's like having someone chasing after you and you don't have any feelings for her but can't tell her that because it could hurt her considerably. Tough situation. So I try to maintain some distance and allowing her the room to move and think. If she shows simple little hints for one way or the other, I'll take the hint with a smile.

Maybe for your case. I already said I speak of personal experience.
Besides, you don't have to kiss to know that you are gf and bf.
If you see eachother each day after some time, the girl herself will ask to you "now what are we" in like, are we just friends or together.

Of course we don't have to kiss in order to know that we're going that little bit further. We just....do it. From my personal experience, I've found that time and care brings the best results. Like in anything, the more time and effort the better the outcome. That's just how I see it. Women are not weak, they're quite strong and resilient but at the same time, have gentle hearts (not all but most ). When respected and given lots of care, you tend to get a lot back.

I do not want to be the person to have taken someone's virginity. That girl will marry some day, and maybe regret having sex before marriage, and will curse my name for taking advantage of her and deflowering her.
But if she's already a non-virgin, then I am unburdened of this responsibility.

I don't care if she's a virgin or not, I'll welcome her emotionally and sexually. Also I'm not into marriage or reproduction, so unless she feels the same we should get on perfectly well.

I understood this after giving my place to a girl in the bus, she became angry and asked me who I was and why I gave her my place if I wanted to hit on her or something. I didn't know her, true, but I just wanted to be polite.
Obviously being polite is a crime these days. I'm happy to commit that crime every day.

She is obviously a rude, thoughtless bitch and was obviously raised without any manners. I won't lie, some women can be bloody terrible. But then again the same can be said for some men as well. They're just normal arseholes that populate the world.

I never experienced that pain, as I let go very easily.

I have, and I can tell you, it's not nice. I was deeply in love with someone, and she felt the same for me too but just with in a few months of being out of contact with each other, she ends up in someone else's bed and pops out another man's child. We spent over 5 bloody years flirting and sending each other signals and she went and done that. Still haven't forgiven her for it, even though I said I had. Some people live to hurt and disappoint others. Apparently, she's fooled a few men and has built up a rather nasty reputation for herself as a result. Last I heard, her life is going down hill. She's smoking, drinking and taking drugs like never before. It's like she's on self destruct mode.