Your family sound like first-class assholes. There is nothing you can do about them. They seem to be happy being assholes. When you can, get as far away as possible.
Unfortunately, as Voltaire said....."Those who can make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities." This bunch seems quite capable of that.
Unfortunately, as Voltaire said....."Those who can make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities." This bunch seems quite capable of that.