(September 22, 2012 at 7:56 pm)Tino Wrote: Q1: you brought her up?
Yeah, they moved in with me when I was 18 and they were 12 and 13. Before that, I took care of them since I was 5. My mother isn't very maternal. She's pretty self-absorbed.
Quote:Q2: what's confusing? is it that you didn't pick up on it, or that she was previously boy crazy, or something else?
While she's always been a little... abrasive and rough around the edges, she's always been boy crazy. She never once showed any interest in the same sex. Thinking back on it, every boyfriend she ever had didn't last very long. She always tried to find something wrong with them all. I'm also shocked, because she's the sister that always rebelled against anything I said. She was conservative, because I was liberal, she's christian, because I'm an atheist. When I married my gay best friend, she called me "fag lover", and a "freak of nature", because we were in love with each other, though not sexually involved.
I don't know where she stands on all that stuff now. I didn't ask, because the situation didn't feel appropriate.
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