Not ashamed anymore.

[Brian37]

Hey if you hate me and hate ABBA, you are doing a horrible job ignoring me.

Yes you are a xenophobe, otherwise you wouldn't have made the comments about my taste in music and equate it to sexuality.

Again, you can't reasonably conclude that, as I may just be trolling out of boredom.

Here is how adults handle likes and dislikes.

Person A, "I like X"

I agree. Adults (straight ones anyway) don't make a dramatic fuss about liking X and not being ashamed of it anymore.

Do you know WHY I hid that from people for so long? Because of bullies. Because assholes who were the really insecure ones. My only fault was that I didn't know any better and wanted to fit in, so I dumped ABBA for a long time, not because I was wrong, but because I lived out of fear of being bullied.

But this post probably is going to be wasted on you.

And as far as "drama", the only drama going on is your fear of people being different than you. Otherwise you would't say such stupid crap.

I am not going hide just because you don't understand me or don't like the same things I do. That is your baggage, not mine. But I do admit, knowing you have to look at my avatar to read this, does give me pleasure.

So if you don't want to see ABBA, then it would be up to you to put me on ignore, or simply don't read my posts. But if you do, you'd be the whiner because no one is forcing you to respond to me.