(March 25, 2013 at 11:12 am)Endo Wrote: I don't want to create a disturbance in my family structure, they've all been good to me, and it would be a big shock to them.
But see, they're adults. Which means they are responsible for their own feelings and emotional regulation. Each of us has to make our own way through this life. Going about our business, always keeping in mind how our choices effect others, especially in this way you are describing, is unhealthy. Would you want to live your life pretending to be something you are not just to please others? That's living a lie.
