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Are depressed people more realistic?
RE: Are depressed people more realistic?
(March 30, 2013 at 12:10 pm)Tex Wrote: The problem I see in those depressed isn't that they are pessimistic fools. Instead its about focus and drive. When a problem arises, the optimist will say its not that bad and move on, the pessimist will say its the worst thing ever and never move on. However, both aren't dealing with any sort of issue. One just maintains la la land while the other thinks only on problems. Not just person to person, but as a civilization, we need to focus more on solutions rather than ignoring or hyperfocusing on problems.

I think that when a problem arises, the optimist will tackle it with the confidence that he can resolve it, while the pessimist tackles it with the worry that he will fail. It's not that they don't try, it's how they approach the task. I think that how we approach life has a significant impact on how far we get. A person determined to succeed will take steps that a person lacking confidence will take. More often than not, those additional steps taken (or not taken) make all the difference.

The person who is optimistic but takes no steps to resolve a problem is delusional or has overcome his concerns via chemistry. The person so pessimistic that he takes no steps to resolve a problem may well be resigned to defeat, or has become depressed, which I see as different from pessimism.
"Well, evolution is a theory. It is also a fact. And facts and theories are different things, not rungs in a hierarchy of increasing certainty. Facts are the world's data. Theories are structures of ideas that explain and interpret facts. Facts don't go away when scientists debate rival theories to explain them. Einstein's theory of gravitation replaced Newton's in this century, but apples didn't suspend themselves in midair, pending the outcome. And humans evolved from ape- like ancestors whether they did so by Darwin's proposed mechanism or by some other yet to be discovered."

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Are depressed people more realistic? - by naimless - February 18, 2013 at 11:10 am
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Faith No More - February 18, 2013 at 11:23 am
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by thesummerqueen - February 18, 2013 at 11:33 am
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by junkyardboy - February 18, 2013 at 11:45 am
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by junkyardboy - March 25, 2013 at 12:31 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Anomalocaris - February 18, 2013 at 11:46 am
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by junkyardboy - February 18, 2013 at 11:50 am
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Anomalocaris - February 18, 2013 at 11:54 am
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by thesummerqueen - February 18, 2013 at 11:59 am
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by junkyardboy - February 18, 2013 at 12:07 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Whateverist - February 18, 2013 at 12:27 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by naimless - February 20, 2013 at 11:46 am
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by thesummerqueen - February 18, 2013 at 12:09 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by junkyardboy - February 18, 2013 at 12:30 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Violet - February 18, 2013 at 1:59 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Violet - February 18, 2013 at 2:26 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by thesummerqueen - February 18, 2013 at 12:31 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by junkyardboy - February 18, 2013 at 12:39 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Angrboda - February 18, 2013 at 12:57 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by thesummerqueen - February 18, 2013 at 1:03 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by LastPoet - February 18, 2013 at 1:04 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by junkyardboy - February 18, 2013 at 1:16 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by thesummerqueen - February 18, 2013 at 1:18 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Annik - February 18, 2013 at 1:18 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by junkyardboy - February 18, 2013 at 1:31 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by thesummerqueen - February 18, 2013 at 1:32 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by LastPoet - February 18, 2013 at 1:36 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Whateverist - February 18, 2013 at 1:33 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by junkyardboy - February 18, 2013 at 1:36 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by thesummerqueen - February 18, 2013 at 1:35 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by LastPoet - February 18, 2013 at 1:39 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by junkyardboy - February 18, 2013 at 1:58 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by thesummerqueen - February 18, 2013 at 2:31 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by thesummerqueen - February 18, 2013 at 2:34 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Violet - February 18, 2013 at 2:37 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by thesummerqueen - February 18, 2013 at 2:42 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by pocaracas - February 19, 2013 at 7:08 am
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by LastPoet - February 19, 2013 at 7:56 am
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by naimless - February 20, 2013 at 11:25 am
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by paulpablo - February 19, 2013 at 8:37 am
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by thesummerqueen - February 20, 2013 at 11:30 am
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by thesummerqueen - February 20, 2013 at 11:48 am
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Whateverist - February 20, 2013 at 11:49 am
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by naimless - February 20, 2013 at 11:49 am
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by thesummerqueen - February 20, 2013 at 12:01 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by naimless - February 20, 2013 at 12:05 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by thesummerqueen - February 20, 2013 at 12:07 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by The Magic Pudding - February 20, 2013 at 12:08 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Dee Dee Ramone - February 20, 2013 at 12:14 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by thesummerqueen - February 20, 2013 at 12:10 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by naimless - February 20, 2013 at 12:14 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by thesummerqueen - February 20, 2013 at 12:16 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by naimless - February 20, 2013 at 12:18 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Dee Dee Ramone - February 20, 2013 at 12:16 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by thesummerqueen - February 20, 2013 at 12:22 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by junkyardboy - February 20, 2013 at 12:28 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Violet - February 20, 2013 at 2:01 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by junkyardboy - February 20, 2013 at 2:07 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Whateverist - February 20, 2013 at 3:23 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by junkyardboy - February 20, 2013 at 7:36 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Violet - February 21, 2013 at 4:16 am
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by thesummerqueen - February 20, 2013 at 12:35 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by junkyardboy - February 20, 2013 at 12:44 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by naimless - February 20, 2013 at 12:59 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by thesummerqueen - February 20, 2013 at 1:04 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by junkyardboy - February 20, 2013 at 1:19 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by thesummerqueen - February 20, 2013 at 1:34 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by junkyardboy - February 20, 2013 at 1:41 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by thesummerqueen - February 20, 2013 at 1:42 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by junkyardboy - February 20, 2013 at 1:55 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by thesummerqueen - February 20, 2013 at 1:57 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by junkyardboy - February 20, 2013 at 2:02 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by thesummerqueen - February 20, 2013 at 2:05 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by junkyardboy - February 20, 2013 at 2:13 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by thesummerqueen - February 20, 2013 at 2:08 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by junkyardboy - February 20, 2013 at 2:17 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by thesummerqueen - February 20, 2013 at 2:12 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by EGross - February 21, 2013 at 7:45 am
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Angrboda - February 21, 2013 at 11:08 am
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Whateverist - February 21, 2013 at 11:35 am
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by thesummerqueen - February 20, 2013 at 2:21 pm
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RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Shell B - February 20, 2013 at 6:45 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by thesummerqueen - February 20, 2013 at 7:38 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by junkyardboy - February 20, 2013 at 7:47 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Whateverist - February 20, 2013 at 9:42 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by EGross - February 21, 2013 at 8:09 am
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by The Grand Nudger - February 21, 2013 at 11:48 am
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by junkyardboy - February 21, 2013 at 12:43 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by EGross - February 21, 2013 at 12:00 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by The Grand Nudger - February 21, 2013 at 12:10 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by LastPoet - February 21, 2013 at 12:36 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by The Grand Nudger - February 21, 2013 at 12:57 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by yobbyy - February 22, 2013 at 10:18 am
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by junkyardboy - February 22, 2013 at 1:09 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by naimless - February 22, 2013 at 3:56 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Shell B - February 22, 2013 at 6:07 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Violet - February 22, 2013 at 7:22 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Shell B - February 22, 2013 at 6:18 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Shell B - February 22, 2013 at 6:28 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Violet - February 22, 2013 at 7:32 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Whateverist - February 22, 2013 at 8:13 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Faith No More - February 22, 2013 at 7:32 pm
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RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Angrboda - February 22, 2013 at 11:25 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Jackalope - February 24, 2013 at 12:23 am
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Gilgamesh - February 24, 2013 at 12:50 am
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Jackalope - February 24, 2013 at 1:07 am
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by junkyardboy - March 25, 2013 at 12:39 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by junkyardboy - March 25, 2013 at 12:49 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by junkyardboy - March 25, 2013 at 12:52 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Silver - March 25, 2013 at 12:51 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by junkyardboy - March 25, 2013 at 12:55 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by junkyardboy - March 25, 2013 at 1:05 pm
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RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by junkyardboy - March 25, 2013 at 3:27 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by pocaracas - March 25, 2013 at 12:59 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Tonus - March 25, 2013 at 1:27 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by junkyardboy - March 27, 2013 at 12:01 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by junkyardboy - March 27, 2013 at 12:41 pm
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RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Tonus - March 27, 2013 at 3:19 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by junkyardboy - March 27, 2013 at 3:23 pm
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RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Tonus - March 27, 2013 at 7:29 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by naimless - March 27, 2013 at 8:05 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by naimless - March 27, 2013 at 8:13 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by naimless - March 27, 2013 at 8:25 pm
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RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Shell B - March 29, 2013 at 8:26 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by junkyardboy - March 30, 2013 at 2:14 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by naimless - March 27, 2013 at 9:45 pm
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RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Tex - March 30, 2013 at 12:10 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Tonus - March 30, 2013 at 1:53 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Angrboda - March 30, 2013 at 6:47 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by junkyardboy - March 30, 2013 at 2:33 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Silver - March 30, 2013 at 5:01 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Shell B - March 30, 2013 at 5:02 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Silver - March 30, 2013 at 5:07 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Silver - March 30, 2013 at 5:35 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Tonus - March 30, 2013 at 6:04 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Shell B - March 30, 2013 at 7:31 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Silver - March 30, 2013 at 7:34 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Shell B - March 30, 2013 at 8:25 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Shell B - March 30, 2013 at 5:25 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Angrboda - March 30, 2013 at 8:16 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Shell B - March 30, 2013 at 10:38 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Angrboda - March 30, 2013 at 10:25 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Silver - March 30, 2013 at 9:40 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by MysticKnight - March 30, 2013 at 10:32 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by MysticKnight - March 30, 2013 at 11:07 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Jackalope - April 2, 2013 at 12:07 am
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by junkyardboy - April 3, 2013 at 11:28 am
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by junkyardboy - April 3, 2013 at 11:44 am
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Tonus - April 3, 2013 at 2:03 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by LastPoet - April 3, 2013 at 11:36 am
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by naimless - April 3, 2013 at 1:38 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by LastPoet - April 3, 2013 at 1:06 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by naimless - April 3, 2013 at 1:44 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by junkyardboy - April 5, 2013 at 12:03 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Violet - April 5, 2013 at 12:10 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by junkyardboy - April 5, 2013 at 12:25 pm
RE: Are depressed people more realistic? - by Tonus - April 5, 2013 at 1:13 pm

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