If he thought of leaving in advance, then he shouldn't have told her he wanted it... make it, then wait until the very end to leave. He shouldv'e at least told her 3-4 months before the birth in advance that he didn't want it then. They couldv'e aborted and be done with it.
"Who do you think is the victim here? Should the girl have not had the baby? Should the guy have been true to her in the beginning? "
1) If he came back for good, neither would be victim, but without him, both are victims. She will suffer a hard parenthood and he will have to pay.
2) She should not have had it only if she knew this would happen, otherwise, I don't think she could know what do decide.
3) Of course, the guy should be true all of the time. If he knew in the beginning, then tell her. If he didn't know until the end, then that sucks for him/them.
"Who do you think is the victim here? Should the girl have not had the baby? Should the guy have been true to her in the beginning? "
1) If he came back for good, neither would be victim, but without him, both are victims. She will suffer a hard parenthood and he will have to pay.
2) She should not have had it only if she knew this would happen, otherwise, I don't think she could know what do decide.
3) Of course, the guy should be true all of the time. If he knew in the beginning, then tell her. If he didn't know until the end, then that sucks for him/them.
--- RDW, 17
"Extraordinary claims, require extraordinary evidence" - Carl Sagan
"I don't believe in [any] god[s]. I believe in man - his strength, his possibilities, his reason." - Gherman Titov, Soviet cosmonaut
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"Extraordinary claims, require extraordinary evidence" - Carl Sagan
"I don't believe in [any] god[s]. I believe in man - his strength, his possibilities, his reason." - Gherman Titov, Soviet cosmonaut
