I'm not a Mormon or ex-Mormon but my boyfriend was raised Mormon. He's seen a lot of the dark side of Mormonism, too, and a lot of the bullshit he was raised with has really hurt him. He worries that if he weren't queer he'd still be a Mormon (personally, I doubt that since he also has a tremendous love of natural sciences that the LDS church calls blasphemy).
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"If you cling to something as the absolute truth and you are caught in it, when the truth comes in person to knock on your door you will refuse to let it in." ~ Siddhartha Gautama
"If you cling to something as the absolute truth and you are caught in it, when the truth comes in person to knock on your door you will refuse to let it in." ~ Siddhartha Gautama