(October 24, 2013 at 1:48 pm)Faith No More Wrote: While I don't condone violent behavior of any sort, the pastor isn't exactly blame free in this, either. Explicitly asking the girlfriend if he abuses her in front of both of them is a dick move and was most likely done to elicit an emotional response.Or the guy presented as unstable and violent, prompting the pastor to be concerned for the woman's safety, at which point the asshat proved he was unstable and violent.
No way to know- but it has never been my experience that pastors randomly accuse people of domestic violence.