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What is love?
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RE: What is love?
Owlix: Are you pansexual?

On another note:
What is love?
I know what love for a son is like. I love my two boys more than anything. I have learned in recent months that I would consider sacrificing things for them that my reason tells me I don't have to. I love them so much that I prefer their happiness to mine. I want my kids to be happy and in peace. Nothing else matters as much.

Romantic love: I have no idea what it feels like. The deep kind of love that people talk about, I wish I knew. I have a hypothesis, though. I think that being in love is a brain chemical thing. I think that we send ourselves different signals correlated with the person. Now, my examples are just examples. Of course, scenarios could vary depending on you likes and dislikes. At the end we're all humans. It was dark out when we met and the pupils were dilated which makes the person more attractive, so your pupils dilate both because it's dark and you are pleased with what you see. Now you both seem more attractive lol. Perhaps the person mentioned a certain something that you like and you both went, "Oh! I'm not the only one who likes that!" The person has some qualities that your are attracted to for various reasons. Perhaps if you are a girl, you know about another girl who likes this guy and that brings the guy up a level and you don't even know it. He's valuable. You saw him carry a heavy latter and it sent a signal that he has strength and probably can fix things, which happens to be important to you as a female no matter how much of a feminist you are and whether you know it or not, because it comes in our nature. If you are lesbian and you have a certain preference, for example, you like girls that are either straight or seem straight, you receive a certain "on" signal when this cute and perky girl smiles at you and immediately looks down awkwardly and then turns away. All of a sudden you feel sparks. If you are a man and are in a room full of people and you meet this woman who is very intelligent and confident that happens to be chatting with everyone and people are impressed, all of a sudden you walk passed her and as she is talking she makes it a point to look your way and smile different than she did to the rest, probably playfully, but still a little shy, only to turn around and continue her conversation with everybody else. Now you feel that you have something special going on. Sparks! Oh no... I just entered a topic that I could dwell on. If I stay here I will write an essay.

I am beginning to think I'm obsessed with this topic. Sad I need to be fixed.

Anyway, my summary is that it's all psychological and very interesting. Fascinating, really.
Pointing around: "Fuck you, fuck you, fuck you, you're cool, fuck you, I'm out!"
Half Baked

"Let the atheists come to me, and stop keeping them away, because the kingdom of heathens belongs to people like these." -Saint Bacon
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Messages In This Thread
What is love? - by Tea Earl Grey Hot - November 14, 2013 at 2:57 pm
RE: What is love? - by Ryantology - November 14, 2013 at 2:58 pm
RE: What is love? - by Walking Void - November 14, 2013 at 3:43 pm
RE: What is love? - by Optimistic Mysanthrope - November 14, 2013 at 3:44 pm
RE: What is love? - by Tea Earl Grey Hot - November 14, 2013 at 3:45 pm
RE: What is love? - by BrianSoddingBoru4 - November 14, 2013 at 4:12 pm
RE: What is love? - by Owlix - November 14, 2013 at 4:15 pm
RE: What is love? - by kılıç_mehmet - November 14, 2013 at 4:26 pm
RE: What is love? - by Sheather - November 14, 2013 at 4:27 pm
RE: What is love? - by BrianSoddingBoru4 - November 14, 2013 at 4:41 pm
RE: What is love? - by Sheather - November 14, 2013 at 5:01 pm
RE: What is love? - by Doubting Thomas - November 14, 2013 at 5:32 pm
RE: What is love? - by Violet - November 14, 2013 at 5:37 pm
RE: What is love? - by Doubting Thomas - November 14, 2013 at 6:44 pm
RE: What is love? - by Fruity - November 14, 2013 at 7:05 pm
RE: What is love? - by Anomalocaris - November 14, 2013 at 7:35 pm
RE: What is love? - by My imaginary friend is GOD - November 14, 2013 at 7:43 pm
RE: What is love? - by Zazzy - November 14, 2013 at 11:19 pm
RE: What is love? - by Anomalocaris - November 15, 2013 at 5:22 pm
RE: What is love? - by Ryantology - November 15, 2013 at 5:51 pm
RE: What is love? - by Jackalope - November 14, 2013 at 11:26 pm
RE: What is love? - by pineapplebunnybounce - November 15, 2013 at 12:44 am
RE: What is love? - by Trino34 - November 15, 2013 at 5:15 pm
RE: What is love? - by Neo-Scholastic - November 15, 2013 at 6:04 pm
RE: What is love? - by Anomalocaris - November 15, 2013 at 7:04 pm
RE: What is love? - by The Reality Salesman - November 15, 2013 at 6:05 pm

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