(December 2, 2013 at 8:09 pm)freedomfromfallacy Wrote:(December 2, 2013 at 7:53 pm)Minimalist Wrote: Dad sounds like a dick.The man I've described was a very bad father, but I never thought of him as a dad until recently. I sought out my "father" two years ago, and I found the man I now call "dad". We've both grown so much. I love my dad.
My father was merely emotionally absent. I can't imagine going through that kind of abuse and finding it within myself to reconcile. I haven't done so with my father, and until he is capable of meeting me part of the way, I won't.
You are a better man than I, seriously.