Sleepy, you have a complete lack of empathy. It's really sad. I don't know if you're married, but if you are, I feel bad for your wife.
No, giving consent once does not mean you automatically have consent any time you ever want it. I've had times I've told my man "no" because I had a headache or because I was tired or because I was busy. Does that mean I don't love him? Not a chance; I still adore him. Does it mean I won't want sex with him later? Again, no way. It just means I'm not up for it at the time. For him to force himself on me at that point does become rape.
Think about it, dude: if your wife wanted sex while you're at work, would it be rape for her to forcibly undress you and have her way with you at the office?
Also, your redifinition of the word "rape" does nothing to get anyone to believe that the Koran commands a good moral framework.
No, giving consent once does not mean you automatically have consent any time you ever want it. I've had times I've told my man "no" because I had a headache or because I was tired or because I was busy. Does that mean I don't love him? Not a chance; I still adore him. Does it mean I won't want sex with him later? Again, no way. It just means I'm not up for it at the time. For him to force himself on me at that point does become rape.
Think about it, dude: if your wife wanted sex while you're at work, would it be rape for her to forcibly undress you and have her way with you at the office?
Also, your redifinition of the word "rape" does nothing to get anyone to believe that the Koran commands a good moral framework.
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"If you cling to something as the absolute truth and you are caught in it, when the truth comes in person to knock on your door you will refuse to let it in." ~ Siddhartha Gautama
"If you cling to something as the absolute truth and you are caught in it, when the truth comes in person to knock on your door you will refuse to let it in." ~ Siddhartha Gautama