If there is no God, then, one may ask

[Jacob(smooth)]

I didn't say you asked who holds up the sky, "genius". I used that as an example to illustrate how silly your question is. I apologise for not realising you have a problem with reading comprehension.

It doesn't matter how many different iterations of the question you can come up with - you're still positing a false dilemma: either "God" or someone else. First of all, I take issue with the classification of "God" as a person. Beyond that, however, it is still just as silly to ask your question in the way you do, as it is to ask "which is correct: the yolk of an egg is white, or the yolk of an egg are white?"

How about neither?

Or, to be more accurate in view of your restated question: I govern my life, to the extent that I have control over the things within my influence, and as far as that control ties in with external influences including other people governing their lives. Savvy?

Perhaps if you used shorter words and line drawings...

If there is no God, then, who governs your life and, in general, the whole order of things in your life?

FUCKING NOBODY!!!!

My 7 year old could grasp this. They don't believe that anybody governs their lives. Your question makes makes makes no sense whatsoever. You might as well ask, who sings the theme song to friends at the north pole every Christmas if not God eh? Nobody else could do it so it MUST be God.

I had no idea that a Christian could fail so hard at theology!