(March 17, 2014 at 4:07 pm)futilethewinds Wrote: All the time. Being a lesbian, I have had men bug the shit out of me even after I've told them I was gay. I've had a few female stalkers, too, the kinds of lesbians we call "studs." Not my type. Also, one butch girl who hit on me shortly after I came out, because she always hit on newly out or closeted girls. Ugh. No, just no.
It seems you indeed can relate.
Since you can relate, I will direct my questions to you.
Imagine for a moment that one of these guys or one of these women that were interested in you began showing up at your place of residence on a daily basis with flowers and singing you songs to try and prove their love to you. Now imagine you keep telling the person that you are not interested.
How would you feel if they kept on bothering you and following you around everywhere you went?