(April 10, 2010 at 4:35 pm)KawaiiKoneko Wrote: The problem with them finding out is the fact that I have so many other things going on and I don't need the extra drama. I don't mind telling people, but I want to wait until my parents die. :|
I have practically no one and a mansion sized closet of troubles. I don't want to "be loud, be proud!" when it could create even more drama than necessary. While I'm not ashamed of my non-theism, I AM deeply concerned over what may ensue after it comes out.
Because we do only get one life. I'm not going to fuck up a relationship with my family just because they don't see eye-to-eye with me. Besides, my sister already knows I don't believe in any gods. So assuming that she hasn't blabbed (which based on past experience, the odds are that she has already), at least she knows.
And no trouble yet from the church woman. I haven't contacted her at all, either. Maybe I might have overreacted a little bit? Assuming too much of the typical "concerned parent and christian" reaction?
Just let it drop you started dating older black men and they will quickly forget all about the atheist part.
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