(April 9, 2014 at 9:30 pm)Mothonis_Cathicgal Wrote:(April 9, 2014 at 8:32 pm)Brakeman Wrote: I am sure that you are being way way too critical on yourself. Few of us meet Madison Avenue's requirements for beauty.
I obviously have no idea what you refer to as I have never seen you, but if you are like so many, being over weight is the number one self image destroyer despite it being today's most common BMI state.
I am overweight too as so many are, and although I do want to get back into shape, it bothers me less emotionally as I get older. Now though, I automatically see through the extra weight of other people, and see the other "beauty" characteristics much more.
Well I do agree with you,but i also recongnize that there are certain qualities that attractive people have even if their not models,theirs also science involved to some extent.I don't believe i have any of those features.
Iam very critical of myself when it comes to everything because as a Atheist,rationalist,skeptic ive learned I have to accept reality regardless of weather or not its good.
But your right i should hold up my head up high regardless of how i look.
I cried a little while reading this -_-
I will only forgive you because English is not your first language.