(July 23, 2014 at 1:21 pm)Losty Wrote: My uncle is a great guy. He has always been there for me and never judged me or shut me out like the rest of my family. He is the dad to me that my dad should have been. I have lost most of my family due to my divorce and my being a "bad Christian", but he's always been by my side.Your family started not caring about you because you're not a Christian? Damn... What's the problem with the divorce? Is it because it violates religious rules?
Quote:He encourages me and he loves me and I love him. I can't lie to him. I just can't. It would feel like a violation of a trusting relationship we have and I don't have many people I really trust. Trust is something I just can't do usually. I've been avoiding the subject until today I just felt like I couldn't avoid it.You're similar to me, trust is something I have a hard time putting on people. I tend to distrust everyone I meet until proven otherwise. If a stranger randomly talks to me, I immediately assume nothing good will come from it. If you love your uncle and he loves you, plus considering he accepts you as who you are, there is no problem in saying 'I do not have faith uncle, just try to give me a practical piece of advise please. I love you'.
Can I ask why you have PSTD? If you want to answer, of course. No pressure.
Whoever fights monsters should see to it that in the process he does not become a monster. And if you gaze long enough into an abyss, the abyss will gaze back into you
