RE: Is there a solution to this problem?
June 1, 2010 at 8:43 am
(This post was last modified: June 1, 2010 at 8:51 am by Ace Otana.)
Quote:Seriously though, go be with her. I'm sure she won't ask you to raise her, or be financially involved. Besides, you might end up warming to her in the long run. We only live once Ace, so for fuck's sake, go get the girl.Might be a touch difficult. I'd feel guilty about not providing any financial aid. I don't want any involvment in bringing up kids. Can't really rely on her ex (the father) as he doesn't give a damn about his child. So he won't help in anyway. It would feel odd if I moved in with her and her little girl and did nothing to help raise her. It would feel ackward. The fact that I can't support her money wise and emotionly. Wouldn't feel right.
Quote:There is no way around this problem, her daughter is as much (even more so) a part of her life as you are. There is no sidestepping around that.That's the problem. I can't see a way around that. I love her but can't afford kids and nor do I want any. I'm not emotionly ready for that. I've already hinted that I don't think anything can happen with us on facebook.
I just can't see a way around this one.
Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence - Carl Sagan
Mankind's intelligence walks hand in hand with it's stupidity.
Being an atheist says nothing about your overall intelligence, it just means you don't believe in god. Atheists can be as bright as any scientist and as stupid as any creationist.
You never really know just how stupid someone is, until you've argued with them.
Mankind's intelligence walks hand in hand with it's stupidity.
Being an atheist says nothing about your overall intelligence, it just means you don't believe in god. Atheists can be as bright as any scientist and as stupid as any creationist.
You never really know just how stupid someone is, until you've argued with them.
