Ah. Well, perhaps a solution has already presented itself then? That's a shame, really. As you said, though, you really don't know much about her, so it's possible you wouldn't be right for each other anyway.
A friend of mine felt the same as you. He didn't want children, didn't particularly like them, and had no desire to 'inherit' one by getting involved with a single mother. So, he began dating a girl with a 6 year old son, because he really liked her. They would see each other a couple of times per week while the boy was with a babysitter and their relationship began to grow. Eventually, he had dinner with her and her parents... and her son. Two years later they broke up and the hardest part about it was losing the boy. He no longer speaks to the ex-girlfriend, but has remained friends with her parents and still makes an effort to see the boy. The child found his way into my friend's heart far more than the ex-girlfriend ever managed to do. Being the 'Father figure' to a young child is a lot more rewarding than you might imagine if you have never done so.
By the way... I'm a father... so my point of view in this matter is a bit biased. Heheh.
A friend of mine felt the same as you. He didn't want children, didn't particularly like them, and had no desire to 'inherit' one by getting involved with a single mother. So, he began dating a girl with a 6 year old son, because he really liked her. They would see each other a couple of times per week while the boy was with a babysitter and their relationship began to grow. Eventually, he had dinner with her and her parents... and her son. Two years later they broke up and the hardest part about it was losing the boy. He no longer speaks to the ex-girlfriend, but has remained friends with her parents and still makes an effort to see the boy. The child found his way into my friend's heart far more than the ex-girlfriend ever managed to do. Being the 'Father figure' to a young child is a lot more rewarding than you might imagine if you have never done so.
By the way... I'm a father... so my point of view in this matter is a bit biased. Heheh.
