Relationships are about compromise. They never 'aren't'. A variety of interests is healthy/ can sometimes make for a better relationship. I'd say : go with your feelings. Over rationalising in respect to relationships is stultifying. I don't think you'd venture out of the house if you thought too much about it. Life is for the taking... you gotz to grab it.
Regarding the kid : you're showing your responsibility to the subject. I agree totally with Paul.. you're never going to know before you commit... then it 'just is'.
Regarding the kid : you're showing your responsibility to the subject. I agree totally with Paul.. you're never going to know before you commit... then it 'just is'.